Breaking up is a painful experience. It’s the time when you are missing the other half of your life. Flowing down of tears usually takes place. You want to be alone and pretend that you’re fine.
Mourning takes a long period of time especially if you are really hooked up with that someone. You are going to remind yourself and accept that he/she is now your ex. Getting over is so hard to do. Your mind tries not to think of him/her but your heart forces you to recall the sweet memories that you have shared.
It’s okay to grieve but make sure that you still care for yourself. Stop listening to the songs that could make you remember about your ex. “Theme” songs would hurt you more thus, do not let you escape from the past. Have some make-over or make yourself better-looking. Let him/her feel that it’s his/her great loss. Don’t plan for revenge because it will just ruin you.
It’s also good to voice out what you feel. In that way you are going to let go the pains from your heart.
Do not text or call your ex. Having an open communication with him/her would make it harder for you to forget. Do not isolate yourself from others. You have the reason to be happy and free from all the hurt. Try to mingle and acquaint with new people.
Do not forget that you have friends to lean on. Go out and have some fun with them. Friends are the ones who won’t make you cry and definitely not leave you alone.
Have a new life and look forward to find a better person who will love you even more. Fix your broken heart and everything will be alright.
--- My heart is not broken but I just want to ease the pain of the broken-hearted..
by: Monica Katherine S. Juezan
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correct mon,, you're such a great friend..it's really true that friends help ease the pain of a broken heart.. time can heal... tnx for being there..
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